When we’re in any sort of relationship, we have to realize that each person comes into the relationship with a set of expectations of one another. Sometime those are discussed and clear, and other times they’re not, but that is a conversation for later.Today, I have four quick tips for you, on how to keep your man happy!
So you have these expectations and so does your man. When he is not living up to those expectations, you get annoyed, right? And vice-versa It’s human nature.
Most likely you’re quick to tell your man what he’s doing wrong, but how often do you stop and tell him when he’s doing things… RIGHT?
We are all busy people and I get that doing what is expected of you is, well just expected! The first easy tip to keeping your man happy and keep your relationship is to simply…
Say thank you.
If your man does something for you, even if you expected it of them, take the time to say “Thanks, I truly appreciate that!” Because your little thank you will let him know that he is appreciated.
And that is oh so important because it triggers his “Hero Instinct.” (You can learn more about the Hero Instinct here.)
Reward the little things he does, and you’ll find your man striving more and more to please you.
Do what they ask you to.
So often I discover people get caught up in their day to day activities and may forget to do something or procrastinate on a task they’re supposed to do for their partner.
Look, I know that life happens, but try to always be a woman of your word. For men, it’s about demonstrating respect. It shows them that their needs are important to you and that you’ve got their back.
He wants to be your top priority, not the last one in line, so don’t spread yourself too thin. Make sure you time time for him and for yourself.
Third, don’t lose the flame in the bedroom.
Keep it hot.
Sometimes it’s important to take the initiative and let him know you want him. Catch him off guard with a provocative text or surprise him with some sexy lingerie. Watch how turned on he’s going to get because you’re taking the time to please him.
And lastly, one more easy thing that you can do to keep you man happy is to…
Men like to feel sexy and handsome too! If he comes in and he’s looking good tell him! Let him know when he looks scrumptious and turns you on.
These four tips may seem insignificant, but I guarantee you they will make a big difference in the way your guy feels about your relationship.
Want to take your relationship skills to the next level with men? Then learn more about how you can trigger his Hero instinct (from the man who invented it) in this short video.
I wish you the best and I hope that these tips will not only help you to keep your man happy, but ultimately that will make you happy too!
Love yourself first.